"De tanto amarte me olvidé" is not a story of romance. It is a cautionary tale. Walter Riso’s entire career has been dedicated to teaching us one simple, revolutionary idea:
Analiza cómo nos engañamos a nosotros mismos justificando actitudes tóxicas del otro.
One evening, a friend asked Elena about her latest design project. Elena realized with a shock that she hadn't touched a blueprint in months. She had become so focused on "us" that "I" had disappeared. She was exhausted, suffering from what Riso calls a "cognitive decentering"—where her entire world revolved around Julian, leaving her feeling small and invisible. She remembered a line from a book she had recently started: "To love you, I must first love myself" The Test of Reciprocity
